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This Isn’t the Great Generational Divide. It’s A Grift.

Estimated reading time: 6 minutes

published 2025-08-05
Tired of the generational war narrative? Learn why it’s a distraction from deeper systemic flaws—and how to lead with collaboration, not division.
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This article breaks down why the generational divide is a false narrative masking poor collaboration systems. It provides insights on bridging gaps across age groups, tech usage, and leadership culture, with five actionable tips to improve cross-generational innovation.

I grew up listening to the same noise and saw the damage it was doing and seeing it continue led me to respond on my LinkedIn account here and here in my more detailed blog article unhindered by someone else's playpen rules.

The generational divide is trending yet again—louder, messier, and more performative than ever. It shows up in boardrooms, brand strategies, hiring practices, and those cringey LinkedIn posts where someone equates emotional intelligence with age.

Again.

This time it's Gen Y vs. Gen Z vs. Gen X. Before it was Millennials vs. Gen X. Before that, Gen X vs. Boomers. Prior to that? Boomers vs. The Silents. Same headline, new “villain.”

The Faux Fight That Keeps Failing Us

This isn’t a generational problem. It’s a societal dysfunction hiding behind clickbait narratives and lazy strategy. If we’re truly about legacy, innovation, and building sustainable systems—especially in the tech and business worlds—we need to stop pretending generational silos are real solutions.

We’re not dealing with a gap in age. We’re dealing with a gap in accountability, cross-functional collaboration, and long-term thinking bullshit. It leads to agism, self-doubt, cross-generational biases and hate, and dismissal of thoughts that aren't similar to your own.

The Myth of the Generational Divide

The idea that generations are fundamentally incompatible is both untrue and unhelpful. What we’re really watching is:

  • Power hoarding disguised as experience.
  • Innovation dismissed as disrespect.
  • Silence and gatekeeping weaponized as wisdom.

It’s not that younger professionals aren’t skilled. It’s that older systems weren’t built to make space.

It’s not that older generations can’t adapt. It’s that many weren’t offered the tools, support, or respect to navigate new landscapes.

Generational tension is the scapegoat when real issues are too uncomfortable to name. Like:

  • Outdated tech infrastructures still in use because “we’ve always done it this way.”
  • Leadership stuck in ego cycles instead of feedback loops.
  • Younger teams asked to code, create, and cure—but not critique.

Tech Isn’t the Problem. Your Fear of Sharing Power Is.

Tech is changing how we work, think, and build. But it doesn’t replace the need for human understanding. Tech is a tool, not a strategy, and if you’re blaming Gen Z for moving fast or Gen X for slowing down, you’ve missed the real friction point.

The issue isn’t that teams span five generations. The issue is:

  • We’re not teaching each other.
  • We’re not learning together.
  • We’re not designing systems that honor both lived experiences and emerging perspectives.

How This Plays Out in Real Life (and Business)

Think about your own team or leadership circle dealing with the generational divide. When was the last time:

  • A Gen Z team member was empowered to lead a project from end to end?
  • A Gen X manager was upskilled without being made to feel behind?
  • A Millennial was listened to about work-life integration without being called “entitled?”

These aren’t generational problems. These are design flaws in leadership development, onboarding, and culture-setting.

Actively Reframing the Narrative

Audit Your Assumptions

Make a list of what you believe about each generation. Seriously. Then ask yourself:

  • Who taught me this?
  • Is it even still true?
  • How has this belief shaped my hiring, collaboration, or leadership?

Your unchecked biases might be your biggest block.

Build Tech Bridges, Not Echo Chambers

Don’t just invest in tech—invest in translators.

  • Hire or train tech mentors across all age groups.
  • Create shared documentation for how your platforms work.
  • Hold monthly cross-training sessions where each age group teaches the others.

Tech should unify your team’s efforts, not highlight your divisions.

Misfits considering the Anti-Grift PSA™ Generational Divide

Redefine Respect

Respect isn’t deference. It’s mutual regard for each other’s contribution and context.

  • Stop calling younger staff “kids” in meetings.
  • Stop implying older staff are “outdated” because they prefer different workflows.
  • Start asking more questions. Listen without correction.

Respect is collaborative, not hierarchical.

Rewrite Your Leadership Playbook

The old models? They're expired.

  • Prioritize adaptability over tenure.
  • Center emotional intelligence in all promotion pathways.
  • Celebrate legacy knowledge and future fluency.

Create spaces where curiosity leads, not just credentials. There’s room for both.

Measure Collaboration, Not Competition

Your KPIs should reflect cooperation:

  • Track team mentorship pairings.
  • Reward cross-departmental wins.
  • Normalize joint project ownership between generations.

Make collaboration measurable and valuable. Why fight each other when we can build together?

What We Stand to Lose (and Gain)

When we lean into generational division, we lose:

  • Legacy wisdom
  • Cultural context
  • Innovation rooted in empathy

When we collaborate across generations, we gain:

  • Resilient strategy
  • Ethical tech implementation capabilities
  • Brands that grow with time instead of aging out

Grifts Decoded

If your brand, team, or strategy depends on erasure to survive, you’re not building legacy. You’re building replacement culture. My gurl, Fulei Ngangmuta (the Resourceful Liberator™), has been getting it in deep with the Erasure conversation and supporting folks through that journey. Check her out for more 'cause she's the truth.

Let’s Build the Future With Each Other

The true innovation is intergenerational.

That’s how you learn how not to repeat what didn’t serve us as a society historically and truly drive innovation and build for the future.

Let’s stop rewriting the same divisive script fuckery. Let’s start co-authoring a future that actually works.

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